Monday, March 27, 2017

Thanks for a Great Weekend!

Natalie Newbold of dollys

Five More Years

Saturday night was truly amazing. The RocknRoll Hi-Fives, Smalltalk, Shellshag, and dollys constituted pretty much a dream line-up for me; and they all turned in great sets. As usual, it was fun to hang and talk to everyone. I think we even fostered a new best-band-friends relationship between The RocknRoll Hi-Fives and Shellshag.

The RocknRoll Hi-Fives
Smalltalk

People onstage and off said some really inspiring and validating things to me throughout the night. That had me tearing up a few times, and it also strengthened my resolve to keep going and to try and make CoolDad Music the best it can be -- whatever that is.

Shellshag
dollys

Thank you to everyone who helped put the show together: the bands, Angie, MJ, Jenn, The Asbury Lanes Family, and everyone else behind the scenes. Thank you to everyone who showed up to the show; and, even if you couldn't make it, thank you for five-years' worth of support. Thank you, of course, to CoolMom for putting up with CoolDadMusic and for putting up with my increasing stress levels as the day got closer. Thank you to everyone who helped get the word out about the show including YouDontKnowJersey.com, Makin Waves, BlowupRadio.com, Babez In Boyland, Speak Into My Good Eye, Mike, and any other outlet or individual who shared out the info. And thank you to anyone I forgot to mention.

I was pretty much dead for most of Sunday, but there was no resting. Little Dickman Records and I had our re-scheduled date with Kino Kimino at The Saint. It was TARRAlicious as Tarra Thiessen played with Kino Kimino, Ex-Girlfriends, and Sharkmuffin for what must have been her 298th, 299th, and 300th shows in the last two or three months. EVL MOMMZ made their Asbury debut. Lunch Ladies closed things out. Tarra got two cakes in honor of her 27th birthday, which is today.

EVL MOMMZ
Ex-Girlfriends
That one also had a nice turnout, especially considering it was Sunday night; and it was fun to introduce Kino Kimino and Asbury Park to each other while watching Sharkmuffin and Ex-Girlfriends let loose on the last night of their long tour.

Kino Kimino
Sharkmuffin
Lunch Ladies

I'm going to take it easy today. Edit some pictures. Maybe put up a guest post. I'll be back after it post-SXSW / post-Anniversary in the next day or two. Stay tuned. I'm in the process of putting pics up into the Flickr galleries, so check there for everything.

And, as always, thank you for giving me any of your precious time.

Thursday, March 23, 2017

What's Going On: 3/23, 3/24, 3/25 & 3/26, 2017


Anniversary Weekend!!

This is it. The big CoolDad Music 5th Anniversary Weekend. The main event takes place this Saturday, 3/25, at The Overlook in Convention Hall. We continue the party with a show at The Saint on Sunday, 3/26. But let's not get ahead of ourselves.

On Thursday night, Brooklyn Bazaar hosts a benefit show for important Brooklyn DIY space, Shea Stadium. That one has members of the Shea Family including Bueno, Lost Boy ?, Stringer, and The '94 Knicks. The Jigsaw Seen return to The Saint with The Tide Bends, Phulton, and The LeMats. Lunch Ladies are up in Union with Hold On, Caulfield, Bettysally, Paul From The Internet, and The Reverie In Comraderie. Senses Fail are at Starland.

Friday night brings the tour-hardened Fun While You Wait and We're Ghosts Now to APYC along with The Mercury Brothers. Asbury Park VFW hosts a benefit show presented by Asbury Park Music Foundation that features lots of jazz & blues veterans from the area. P-Dub are at Langosta.  Mint 400 presents a big show in JC's Cathedral Hall with Adam & The Plants, Kult Of Mary, C.R. & The Degenerates, Guilty Giraffe, and Rosey Bengal. Bern & The Brights, Liv Lombardi, and Emily Grove are at The Porchistas Home Studio in Montclair. Capacitor Records holds a showcase at The Stone Pony featuring The Black Clouds, GayGuy/StraightGuy, Experiment 34, Yorkshire Tenth, Strange Eclipse, and Simple Sin.

Then, on Saturday...

Well, first... Casual, The Meltaways, and Exmaid are at Gold's in Bruns. The UK's Desert Mountain Tribe are at The Saint. New Found Glory play the first of two, sold-out shows at The Pony. 

But, really, the big thing on Saturday is the CoolDad Music 5th Anniversary Party co-presented with our beloved Asbury Lanes Family. It's 18+, and we have Shellshag, dollys, Smalltalk, and The RockNRoll Hi-Fives joining us for the celebration -- four bands who have meant a great deal to the blog over the last five years. I hope to see everyone there, so I can hug you, shake your hand, whatever and say thanks!

It's an unusually busy Sunday with Deal Casino heading up to BerlinNYC to play a show with The Cold Fronts, The Howl, and Journalism. Noise In The Attic hosts another benefit show at The Inkwell in Long Branch in support of one of my favorite charities in the world, GLSEN. Laura Stevenson is at Rough Trade NYC with Adult Mom and Hiccup. Crossroads in Garwood hosts Map Of Rome, Wyland, Experiment 34, and more. More New Found Glory at The Pony.

Finally on Sunday, Little Dickman Records and CoolDad Music keep the anniversary celebration going when we bring you Kino Kimino, Sharkmuffin, Ex-Girlfriends, Lunch Ladies, and EVL MOMMZ at The Saint for just $5. Sharkmuffin's Tarra Thiessen will play in three of the bands (and it's her birthday!).

I hope to see you at one of our shows this weekend. If you can't make it, still know that -- as always -- I thank you from the bottom of my heart for spending even one second here on the site. Here's to five more years!

THURSDAY (3/23)

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): Open Mic, 8pm, FREE

Brooklyn Bazaar (Brooklyn): Benefit for Shea Stadium w/ Bueno / Lost Boy ? / Stringer / '94 Knicks, 8pm, $10

House of Independents (Asbury): Cash'd Out (Johnny Cash Tribute), 9pm, $20 adv, $25 door

Langosta Lounge (Asbury): JoeP of Deal Casino, 8:30pm

Lucky 13 (Brooklyn): Womb Of Nations / Twin God / worldsucks / Phantom Knight, 8pm, $10

The Saint (Asbury): The Jigsaw Seen / The Tide Bends / Phulton / The LeMats, 7:30pm, $10 adv, $13 door

Sharkey's Campus Inn (Union): Lunch Ladies / Hold On, Caulfield / Bettysally / Paul From The Internet / The Reverie In Comraderie, 9pm

Starland Ballroom (Sayreville): Senses Fail, 6pm, $17.50 adv, $20 door

The Wonder Bar (Asbury): Hayley Jane and The Primates, 7pm, $8 adv, $10 door

FRIDAY (3/24)

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): Fun While You Wait / We're Ghosts Now / The Mercury Brothers, 8pm, FREE

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): DJ Mike Merrell, 8pm, FREE

Asbury Park VFW (Asbury): A Night of Jazz and Blues to Benefit Gladstone Trott, 8pm, $15 per person / $25 per couple

Asbury Park Yacht Club (Asbury): Predator Dub Assassins, 9pm, FREE

The Brighton Bar (Long Branch): Mark Aguilar & Family / Lauren Patti, 8pm, $8

Cathedral Hall (Jersey City): Adam & The Plants / Kult Of Mary / C.R. & The Degenerates / Guilty Giraffe / Rosey Bengal, 7:30pm, $10

Clash Bar (Clifton): Family Man / Ides / Toxicology / Dusters / School Drugs, 8pm

Crossroads (Garwood): Black Dog (Zeppelin Tribute), 8pm

House of Independents (Asbury): Billy Joel Songbook w/ Chris Pinnella, 8pm, $30 adv, $45 door

Langosta Lounge (Asbury): Billy Hector, 9pm, FREE

Meatlocker (Montclair): NEAUX / NO SUN / AKRIS / SICK SHIT / TRÜ, 8pm, donations

Millhill Basement (Trenton): City Mouse / Dreadpool Parker / Dirty Merlins / Dim, 9pm

Porchistas Home Studio (Montclair): Bern & The Brights / Liv Lombardi / Emily Grove, 8pm, $10

Purgatory (Ask): Johnnycola / Serious Matters / Halcionne / Smooch, 5pm, $5

The Saint (Asbury): Paper Bird / Rose Blvd / Rachel Ana Dobken / Avery & The Man Devils, 7:30pm, $12 adv, $15 door

The Stone Pony (Asbury): The Black Clouds / GayGuy/StraightGuy / Experiment 34 / Yorkshire Tenth / Strange Eclipse / Simple Sin, 7pm, $12 adv, $15 door

Tiki Lounge (Ask): MNDBD / Sweats / DJ Gad Lee & Knostalgia / Tab Jones, 8:30pm, $5

The Wonder Bar (Asbury): Pimps Of Joytime, 7:30pm, $15 adv, $17 door

SATURDAY (3/25)

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): Regina Sayles, 8pm, FREE

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): DJ Atom Worth, 11pm, FREE

Asbury Park Yacht Club (Asbury): Kidz From The Burbz / Harry Hei$t / Tattoo Money / White Owl, 9:30pm, FREE

The Brighton Bar (Long Branch): Overmind / After The Burn / Jon Caspi & The First Gun / Bionic Monkey / AristoCants, 8pm, $8

Court Tavern (New Brunswick): New Politicians / Casino Sundae / Dinosaur Eyelids / Finding Feebas, 8pm, $10 (Proceeds Benefit Elijah's Promise)

Fox & Crow (Jersey City): Glenn Morrow's Cry For Help, 10pm

Gold's (New Brunswick): Casual / The Meltaways / Exmaid, 7pm, $5

House of Independents (Asbury): Black Light Dance Party, 9pm, FREE

J House (Ask): Hong Kong Graffiti / Morus Alba / The Planet You / Brunsquick, 8pm, $5

Langosta Lounge (Asbury): Dark City Strings, 9:30pm, FREE

Meatlocker (Montclair): Vendors' Market w/ Anna O'Connor / Astro Boy / Brielle Liebman / Kate Dressed Up / more, 3pm

Millhill Basement (Trenton): The Crypt Keeper 5 / The Carousers / From The Archives / The Low Doses, 9pm, Mixtape Nation Fundraiser

The Overlook (Asbury): CoolDad Music 5th Anniversary ft. Shellshag / dollys / Smalltalk / The RockNRoll Hi-Fives, 7:30pm, $10

Pino's Gift Basket (Highland Park): Spirit Pilots / Zero For Conduct / Risk Relay, 8pm, $3

Roxy & Duke's Roadhouse (Dunellen): Starman (Bowie Tribute), 9pm, $15 adv, $20 door

The Saint (Asbury): Great Lake / Garage Sale / Slapjack / Aruba Jon, 1pm, $12 (ALL AGES, No Alcohol)

The Saint (Asbury): Desert Mountain Tribe / J.K. Lago, 7:30pm, $10 adv, $13 door

Starland Ballroom (Sayreville): Billy Currington, 7pm, SOLD OUT

The Stone Pony (Asbury): New Found Glory, 7:30pm, SOLD OUT

Trash House (Philly): Coping Skills / Secret Mountain / Amanda X, 7:30pm, $5-$7 (Planned Parenthood Benefit)

The Wonder Bar (Asbury): Jo Bonanno & The Godsons Of Soul, 8pm, $12

SUNDAY (3/26)

The Asbury Hotel, Soundbooth (Asbury): Sunday Night Trivia w/ Gentleman Jim, 6pm, FREE

BerlinNYC (NYC): Cold Fronts / The Howl / Deal Casino / Journalism, 7pm, $8

Brooklyn Bazaar (Brooklyn): Hot Curl / Parrot Dream / Looms / Zechariah Funkhouser, 8pm, $10

Crossroads (Garwood): Map Of Rome / Wyland / The Ones You Forgot / Experiment 34 / From The Concrete / Sammy Cannillo / Astrokatz, 7pm, $10

Danny Clinch Transparent Gallery (Asbury): Quinton Smith / Meadowhawks / Rick Barry / Rachel Ana Dobken, 2pm

Inkwell Coffee House (Long Branch): Colin Adkinsson / Gary Mayer / Matt Cook / Michael Askin / Modern Crowds, 8pm, $5 (ALL PROCEEDS TO GLSEN)

Langosta Lounge (Asbury): Ronnie Brandt and The Woodfield Brothers, 1pm, FREE

Meatlocker (Montclair): String Machine / Portrait People / Fire Is Motion / El Americano / subtitles, 8:30pm, donations

Rough Trade NYC (Brooklyn): Laura Stevenson / Adult Mom / Hiccup (record release), 8pm, $16

The Saint (Asbury): The Hesh Inc. / Bruce Tunkel / Jenny Pilots, 1:30pm, $10

The Saint (Asbury): Kino Kimino / Sharkmuffin / Ex-Girlfriends / Lunch Ladies / EVL MOMMZ, 7:30pm, $5

Scarlet Pub (New Brunswick): The Have Some Hotel / johnnycola / House of Strays / Paul From The Internet, 8pm, $5

The Stone Pony (Asbury): New Found Glory, 7:30pm, SOLD OUT

The Wonder Bar (Asbury): Wonder Jam, 3pm, $5

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

CoolDad Music's 5th Anniversary Party with Shellshag, dollys, Smalltalk, and The RockNRoll Hi-Fives, March 25th, 2017, at The Overlook

Poster by Natalie Newbold

Happy Anniversary To Us

This past weekend, we officially announced our 5th anniversary party. It takes place on March 25th, 2017, at The Overlook in Asbury Park's Convention Hall. Playing for us are Shellshag, dollys, Smalltalk, and The RockNRoll Hi-Fives; and the whole celebration is a joint production between CoolDad Music and The Asbury Lanes Family. I haven't been this excited about something in a long time, and I think it's going to be a lot of fun.

5th Anniversary Design by Alex Rosen

On March 4th, 2012, I headed over to The Stone Pony with three other cooldads. We saw Titus Andronicus, Screaming Females, and Diarrhea Planet on that Sunday night. The next morning, I got up and wrote my first-ever post for this site. The first four words ever written on CoolDadMusic.com were "I love Asbury Park."

At the time, I was writing as someone who had grown up in the area and pretty much knew Asbury Park for its beach and its boardwalk. I'd definitely seen my share of shows at The Stone Pony or The Fast Lane over the years; but, until 2012, I hadn't really immersed myself in the Asbury Park music scene. I had, after all, spent a good chunk of my "prime show-going years" living in places like New York City, Hoboken, and Seattle. Now -- after five years of some pretty heavy immersion -- I can say that those first words I wrote at CoolDad Music are as true today as they were back then.

That's why I'm so happy to be able to throw this party in Asbury Park with the people who made Asbury Lanes one of my personal sanctuaries. Jenn Hampton and the staff at that venue welcomed me with open arms for around four years; and they made me -- a newcomer -- feel like a member of the family. It's not an exaggeration to say that there is no CoolDad Music without Asbury Lanes, and I hope that we're able to transfer some of the vibe that existed inside those four walls to our show on March 25th. I'm confident we can do it as the feeling there was never as much about the building as it was about the people inside.


Each of the bands playing the show (like countless others in our fertile Tri-State Area) continue to inspire me here at the site. If you do a search here (or over at Speak Into My Good Eye where I wrote for a time), you'll see their names pop up often. dollys so expertly craft classic pop music that it's almost easy to miss the meticulous attention to detail that goes into every one of their songs. They're also as dedicated to a DIY ethic as they are to making great music. From Smalltalk's earliest efforts, I've been a fan of their romantic and jangly "Modern Rock at the Jersey Shore." Their sound takes me back to a time when I was just discovering that there was music beyond the Classic Rock I listened to into my teens. The RockNRoll Hi-Fives have become great friends of mine, and it's appropriate that it happened through music. Dad Joe, Mom Gloree, and Kids Eilee and Evren play exuberant rock that shows how music can connect people; and they inspire me to be a better dad. Finally, Shellshag should be an example to us all. For over twenty years, the duo of John "Shellhead" Driver and Jennifer Shagawat have done what they've wanted to do exactly how they've wanted to do it; and that's kind of what we're all about here.


So, I hope you'll come help us celebrate at The Overlook on March 25th. Everything starts at 7:30. The price is $10, and anyone 18 and over can join us.

You can get tickets in advance at this link right here.