Friday, July 27, 2018

The Hold Steady Played Stay Positive at White Eagle Hall. Kevin Devine Opened. 7/25/18

The Hold Steady from back in the crowd.

So! Much! Joy!

There's this Onion article from about a year and a half ago called "Man Spends Whole Day Dreading Fun Activity He Signed Up For." It contains great quotes like, "What the hell was I thinking? I have to take the train all the way downtown, stand in line, and then probably talk to people afterwards."

That sums me up pretty well, especially over the last several months. I get all excited when a show gets announced and pounce on tickets; and then, when the day finally arrives, I spend the whole time thinking about how I'm gonna have to find parking, and it's gonna be sold out and super-crowded, and it will be hard to see, etc. All of that stuff was going through my head on Wednesday as I got ready to head up to Jersey City's White Eagle Hall for The Hold Steady. One point in my favor was that Gentleman Jim had volunteered to drive, so the driving and parking stuff wasn't part of the equation. Another was that I wouldn't be shooting the show, so I wouldn't have any stress about arriving early and jockeying for position.

Oh, the other thing about me? Whenever I spend the whole day hemming and hawing about all the negatives associated with attending a sold-out show, I almost always end up having a great time. Wednesday would be the first night of The Hold Steady's "Constructive Summer" mini-tour; and, on this night, the band were celebrating the tenth anniversary of their album Stay Positive.

We got to White Eagle Hall maybe 30 minutes after doors. The Hold Steady fanbase is a rabid one, and the area in front of the stage was already pretty packed out. We just set up somewhere towards the rear, and not once did I worry about the negative impact that this would have on my ability to take pictures (That's a lie. I had my point and shoot like always, and I knew it would be next to useless during the headlining set, which did kinda bug me. But I digress.). I've been to White Eagle Hall several times now, and I'm still impressed with what a beautiful venue it is. Its other great feature is that, even during a sold-out show, it's comfortable. Some venues can feel kind of harrowing when packed to the gills, but there's always some breathing room to be found at White Eagle.

Kevin Devine opened the show at around 8:30. He played solo acoustic for about 45 minutes and was a trooper throughout. He gave the set his all even as the din in the room swelled to a dull roar as more and more people filed inside. It's gotta be a tough gig to be the acoustic opener for a rock band.

Kevin Devine

At about 9:45, The Hold Steady took the stage and launched right into Stay Positive's opening track, "Constructive Summer." Back in the summer of 2013, The Hold Steady opened the Stone Pony Summer Stage with that song. I can't hear it now without thinking about all the emotions that filled me upon hearing it as the first song of our first post-Sandy summer on the Jersey Shore. I'm a pushover that way sometimes.

From there, the band ran through Stay Positive front-to-back including bonus tracks "Ask Her for Adderall," "Two-Handed Handshake," and "Cheyenne Sunrise." Stay Positive is an interesting album for a live show like that in a few spots, I think. Songs like "One for the Cutters" and "Both Crosses" aren't necessarily sing along jams; but, for that reason, they're also relatively rare selections for a live set. Die-hard fans get a chance to hear things they don't hear at every show.

Singer Craig Finn played his usual jittery and jovial emcee. He'd step away from the mic to re-mouth the lyrics he just sang. He'd snap his fingers and spread his arms wide. The crowd sang just about every lyric -- even to those not-necessarily-sing-along jams. Arms were raised aloft. Confetti exploded up from the folks assembled in the front row.

The Hold Steady

Once the band were done with Stay Positive, they rattled off favorites from other records like "The Weekenders," "Stuck Between Stations," and "Your Little Hoodrat Friend." We got the first-ever live rendition of new single, "The Stove & The Toaster." They closed the main set with "How a Resurrection Really Feels."



The final song of the evening was "Killer Parties." As the band vamped the intro, Finn delivered thank yous and farewells. "You know what I'm gonna say... ...cause I always say it. There's..." and the crowd said it with him "SO! MUCH! JOY! in what we do up here." And it's always true. All of The Hold Steady's songs "are sing along songs," and just being a part of it is worth all the hassle of getting myself to a sold-out show.

Our good buddy Scotch LaRock was at the show, standing behind me. At one point early on, as I was singing along, he put his big arm around me and said, "It's good to see you happy."

The Hold Steady continue their tour with sold-out shows tonight, 7/27, at Philadelphia's Union Transfer and tomorrow night, 7/28, at the new Lanes in Asbury Park.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

River City Extension: Simple Gifts 4 at The Stone Pony, 11/27/13


Hey, Thanks

We don't have a lot of traditions here at CoolDad Music HQ, but the ones we do have seem to bunch up at Thanksgiving. I cook the turkey. CoolMom always makes mashed sweet potatoes with a bit of chipotle pepper thrown in. My new tradition is heading out to The Stone Pony on Thanksgiving Eve to see River City Extension.

This was the second year of my new tradition. In trying to figure out how to write this up, I thought I'd just kind of list all the things for which last night made me realize I'm truly thankful.

I'm thankful for CoolMom and the cooldaughters. Before I headed out last night, I got to watch CoolDaughter #2 swim at her swim lesson and open her first night's Hanukkah presents. I got to drive CoolDaughter #1 to her own swim practice and spend time talking to her in the car. As I left for the show, I thought about how lucky and thankful I am to have a family that accepts me and lets me be the person I am.

I'm thankful for the friends I've made through CoolDad Music. My companion for the show was a fellow cooldad that I met through the site. I used to go to shows alone all the time. I enjoyed it. But now, I'm always running into people I've met or worked with through the blog. It's nice to share things like last night with other people.

I'm thankful for Speak Into My Good Eye and the support they've shown me throughout 2013. They gave me a platform and pretty much let me do my own thing. It was nice to see both Chris and Mike last night, and I look forward to continuing to work together.

I'm thankful that I started paying closer attention to the local scene and came across bands like Harper's Fellow. They started things off last night, playing songs from their excellent debut LP, some covers, and some new songs. Cortney Metzler writes some really great songs that she delivers in her beautiful voice, and the rest of the band -- Eric Castellazzo, Brendan Smith, and Alex Ford -- provide just enough New Jersey atmosphere to keep things from veering into full-on country territory.

I'm thankful that I finally got to see a full set from Montclair's Those Mockingbirds. At the Tiny Giant Summer Bummer back in June, I had to leave during their set. Last night, they shook The Stone Pony with their singular brand of alt rock and made me think that they could be poised to move well beyond New Jersey at any moment.

I'm thankful that Kevin Devine was on the bill. He joined Those Mockingbirds on a cover of "Fortunate Son" and whipped the crowd into a frenzy during his own set. Early on, he threw in a quick reminder of last year's Simple Gifts show by giving us a few moments of "The Beers" by last year's openers, The Front Bottoms.

I'm thankful that River City Extension make this show special for their hometown fans every year. They played a two-hour set that covered their entire discography along with several tracks destined for the band's third full-length. Frontman Joe Michelini and guitarist John Muccino were non-stop motion and energy. Bassist Colin DiMeo and multi-instrumentalist Patrick O'Brien had expressions of pure joy on their faces for the entire set, and drummer Mike Costaney was the smiling, laid-back presence I've grown used to seeing as part of side-project Thanks.

I'm thankful that River City Extension brought along a string section to enhance their sound. There's just something about watching a violinist or cellist on stage who can play so beautifully while keeping up with the lead guitarist in kinetic energy.

I'm thankful that River City Extension don't feel that they're boxed into a singular sound or style. New song "Man of Conviction" is the band's interpretation of disco and has me looking forward to Deliverance.

I'm thankful that I positioned myself outside the intense and annoying bro-zone, mosh pit that formed about halfway through the main set. I didn't have a particularly good vantage point for pictures, but safety first.

Finally, I'm thankful for anyone who spends even a minute to stop by and check out my little vanity project here at CoolDad Music. It means a lot.

Sweet potatoes mashed. Turkey in the oven. Time to crack open a Unibroue and wait for the family to arrive.

Happy Thanksgiving.



And here's what I got for the setlist. Let me know if I messed up / missed anything.

Friends and Family
South for the Winter
*New*
If You Need Me Back In Brooklyn
Point of Surrender
*New*
Something Salty, Something Sweet
Letter To Lainie
It's No Ha-Ha-Ha
Welcome to Pittsburgh
(I Had Thought About This In) March
Girls (*New*)
Our New Intelligence
If I Still Own A Bible
Slander
Down, Down, Down
There and Back Again
Man of Conviction (*New*)
Ballad of Oregon
Everything West of Home / Brooklyn (Reprise)
Today I Feel Like I'm Evolving

Nautical Sabbatical
Elephant